One of the well known public speaker shared one story about green peace vegetable recipe in her talk show. She went as a guest on dinner at her relative’s home, where in menu she had over there is green peace vegetable which is not that good attempt of that relative as per her taste. Now, this matter supposes to be ended over here but it didn’t. Next time she went somewhere else as an invitee, there also she found green peace vegetable in the menu. This particular recipe she appreciated a lot. But while having this vegetable she remembered that earlier incident as well. After some days when she is in vegetable mart when she saw green peace, over there again she remembered that 1st incident. While concluding this story that public speaker said, “The thing which is good one is not remembered. Though having tasty green peace vegetable didn’t remembered and hit the other one. Our mind is also like this, the things which we need to keep in mind we didn’t but hold which we should not keep in mind.”
In office, senior’s sarcastic comment is usually remembered by an employee but due to that comment we unknowingly accepted the challenge and achieved great milestones in the future. But of course, as a human being we do keep in mind those comments instead of the milestones.
Any incident happened five years ago with someone and there onwards we stopped talking to that person. But whenever we see that person we get a flashback of that incident only and we made that memory such hard in our mind. During those five years the whole world changes then why we can’t be so generous and think that person may also got changed. Even if that person again extends the hand of the relationship with good intentions, the bitter memory that we hold will not allow us to extend the hand of response. So the best solution is to break free from bad memories. Those should not be kept curled up.
Memories of the past should be gradually erased from the memory chip and new sweet memories should be replaced in the chip. And the same bitter memory we met again at a turn, then we will find sweetness instead of bitterness. So, what to keep in memory? The one who understands this is the true prudent one! The past should not be allowed to block the place of the present.
In ‘Kung Fu Panda’ movie there was a turtle named Master Oogway. It is three hundred years old. He shared beautiful sentence in the movie as:
As we remove the piercing ornaments while sleeping at night, we should also remove the piercing memories from our minds.
And the next morning, forget about the past and put on a new ornament for the new day.
In the morning the body is free and the mind as well.
Prof. Vibhuti Save
Assistant Professor,
DR V N BRIMS, Thane
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